Understanding Relationship Obsession
Understanding Obsessive Love Disorder
Obsessive love disorder (OLD) is characterized by an uncontrollable obsession with a partner, leading to emotional distress and damaging behavior. Those affected often experience intense feelings of anxiety and possessiveness that can threaten the stability of their relationships.What Causes Obsessive Love Disorder?
The origins of obsessive love disorder are complex and multifaceted. Here are some potential contributors:- Insecure Attachment Styles: Individuals who develop insecure attachment styles during childhood may struggle to form healthy relationships in adulthood, leading to obsessive behaviors.
- Previous Trauma: Experiencing trauma or abuse in past relationships can trigger fears of abandonment or unworthiness, causing individuals to latch onto their current partners excessively.
- Low Self-Esteem: Feeling unworthy or not good enough can drive individuals to seek validation through extreme forms of love, leading to obsession.
Symptoms of Obsessive Love Disorder
People suffering from obsessive love disorder may show various symptoms, including:- Constantly checking their partner's social media.
- Excessive texting or calling.
- Persistent jealousy and suspicion.
- Controlling behavior over the partner's social relationships.
- Emotional instability related to the perceived value of the relationship.
